Taurus Man Decoded

If you are chosen by the Bull and has set your sights on him

BE PREPARED for a LONG battle of yearning, frustration, desperation and let-downs…….

Easy to attract, difficult to land

Taurus is purportedly the hardest sign to make it to the altar because they are SO SLOW to invest in their emotions. It is even ironic since they are ruled by Venus, the goddess of love. They make women fall in love while they take their own sweet time.

If you can handle a Taurus, you can handle any other sign on the Zodiac.

It’s sad to see so many women falling into Taurus men’s palms, yet getting hurt when they are dropped off like a pin, especially strong and independent women. Getting a Taurus to the altar is not that difficult once you know what you are dealing with.

You need to have PATIENCE.

Many women are so addicted to the sweet feeling of love with the Bull that once they fell into the Bulls’ territory, they give up because they are often left on a cliff on where they stand. By then, they also find it is not that easy to leave a Taurus, compared to men from other signs.

There are NO SECRETS to landing a Taurus, but there are points you need to keep in mind and a framework of actions that you can live by to keep them with you, to make him feel like you are the REAL DEAL, THE ONE.

Before you do, ask yourself two questions: Is he really worth all the pain and time? What are you looking for in him?

A Taurus lives with a set routine and is faithful to it. He doesn’t like changes and does not like anything to get in the way of his routine. If you cannot live with this, don’t go for Taurus. You must have heard this before, so I am going say it one more time. Taurus hates changes and hates it when others try to change his routine. If you plan to change him, leave him alone because if they sense that you want to change him, they won’t like it. Acceptance of who he is is very important to them.

SO, you already have a target Taurus in mind and you have surfed the Internet, forums and blog posts on everything you can find about Taurus, checked out countless basics about the Taurus guy, for example, they love pretty women who dresses well, loves good food and is a stickler for STABILITY, SECURITY and STRUCTURE in their lives. You make effort to hang out with him, know more about him, make accommodations for him and made him a priority, yet he is still tentative about you. What could be the issue?

Taurus loves CONSISTENCY in women and women who can be PATIENT with them.

Have you been too pushy or needy? Is there anything about you which didn’t pass his inspection? You might find that a lot of points being said about Taurus is repeated here, because that is basically how Taurus work. Once you build up your basics, your FOUNDATION (one of the Bull’s favourite word) of how Taurus work, your interaction with them won’t go off the canon.

Taurus are straightforward but not easy to understand

MOST women find it a chore to understand Taurus because Taureans don’t operate on the same frequency and timeline like other Zodiac signs. Majority of women would give up halfway because of the sense of desperation. To be the winner, you need to have YOUR OWN LIFE, goals and expectations.

In dealing with a Taurus,

TIME shall become your greatest ally

Taurus are SLOWWWWWW and only TIME will conquer him. The longer someone stays in his life and the more that person is in his routine, the more valuable she is to him.

Taurus men have a weekly routine and annual routine in their life. Find out what they are and whether you can respect it and put up with it.

You are now checking out Taurus men because you have been chosen by your Taurus and chances are you are feminine, well-dressed, attractive, smart, strong, independent, talented, and practical,  probably a good cook. At least a few of these things.

Taurus love HIGH STANDARDS. Make sure you are always holding yourself up to your own standard or exceeding them

One thing I learnt about Taurus:

You don’t pick Taurus. Taurus PICK YOU.

But before you begin anything, make sure YOU LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!

To land a Taurus, you have to become a PARADOX in yourself

• Let him know CLEARLY that it is only him you want, but never make the confession yourself first. They won’t take initiative, so you have to encourage him by taking him to dinner and encourage him to confess
• Be desirable with men, but never make him jealous. Let him know you have only eyes for him
• Be strong and independent, but VULNERABLE with him. They need to feel admired, loved and even better, idolised by their loved one.
• Be vulnerable but not emotionally needy.
• Know how to succeed and protect yourself, but allow him to be protective of you. Make him feel needed.
• Be there for him, but do not be available all the time. Give him space and freedom, and do not be pushy.
• Be helpful with advancing his life, but do not give unsolicited help unless asked. They are independent and do not like others helping them with their responsibilities.
• Keep a timeline for your relationship progress, but do not push them into the next level. They hate to be pushed into doing anything when they are not ready. Chances are he might already be planning your life together, but yet to execute.
• Let him know you are in it for the long haul, but do not act like his wife. Taurus are lazy. Once, you act like his wife, he gets comfortable and stops working to get you.
• Prioritize him in your actions, but do not ever let him know he is a priority. Taureans, like their opposite sign Scorpios, love challenges. Once you are too easy, they lose interest. You need to hold their interest for a lifetime.

You will find that even when you do understand him, he will still take his time because he’s so comfortable with what he’s getting from you. So what should you do to push your relationship to the next stage? How do you use his bitchiness to your advantage? How do you get closer to the marriage altar?

You need to have a plan. A course of action.

Remember Newton’s second Law of Motion? For every action, there is an equal force in the opposite direction.

Taurus reacts and responds to action. No action means no reaction.

By having an understanding on Taurus, you can take appropriate action that pulls him closer to you.

So make the effort now. If your Taurus is giving you issues, chances are he is still assessing. You have to find out what makes him tick. More importantly, you have to work on yourself too.

I wish you good luck in your pursuits.

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